My introduction to porn was when I walked in on my college boyfriend who was beating off over magazines. Huge embarrassment ensued. I think the next one was a few years later with another guy, while screwing on his carpet, I noticed a magazine under an easy chair and pulled it out to see. It was a girly magazine and it was still wet with sperm!! More embarrassment, but this time I wasn't the embarrassed one! Hmmmm, then I can remember some video tapes that actually got me in-the-mood - which was a lot of unexpected fun! Who knew? After that I think that I was introduced to NN tributes which were initially shocking but also fascinating at the same time. These days I find tributes to be high compliments and like to say "thank-you" to them in my own special way. Lot's of NNers have received my thank-you pictures.

For the last few years my weakness has been watching or paging through cunnilingus gifs on a computer screen while receiving a munch of my own. Those work almost too well because I orgasm so quickly, but they've also introduced me to the land of multiple orgasms - which I thought was a fairy tale place. So, now I'm living happily ever after.

If your partner views porn as sick or immoral then you’re screwed. Otherwise just ASK. “Hey, here’s something I thought we could watch together.” Don’t pick anything too extreme.

If she isn't just dead set against it, let her pick the porn. I have found that women have better tastes in porn than men.

Good advice, but it does assume she has some familiarity to know what she likes. Get something made for couples. Don’t jump straight into Anal Amazons part 7.

I stole a Playgirl magazine that had Ernie Langeberg as the centerfold..first time I had seen an uncut cock.

Thanks folks gently does it then.

I thought of starting with The Lovers Guide for some new positions and then a few tamer videos

My hubby would bring home magazines that he found at work (where he worked, that was no surprise) and didn't say very much but left them for me to look at. Gradually I went from sneaking a look while he was out to looking at them in bed with him...and so it began..a lifetime of lust

Nothing would make me happier than to find out my wife jacks off to porn. Unfortunately she gave up masturbating (and having orgasms) over 20 years ago ...

In the first few years we were together, I got her to watch a little bit of porn, but she just thought it was "cute" and had no real interest in it. I've asked her many many times what she would like to do when we make our own -- since she goes along with me making some videos and taking photos -- so that we can watch it later together, but she can never think of anything.

I've tried writing stories and asking her to write stories, anything she wants, but she won't. She's liked some of my stories, and reads voraciously, but somehow can't write anything of her own (porn or not).

She sounds like an awesome wife! She's just kind of bound up inside. It's too much for her to get it out. You're doing right with gentle patience. Lucky man, keep it up.

I was lucky my wife said hey you wanna watch some porn

I don’t need porn, I AM porn!!!