Go for it!

The clinically obsessed of which MANY live in this community will advocate enema and that has its place but eat right, hydrate, and she will be ready.

What if there is feces on it after you two are done? Soap it up inbthe shower and get clean.

Porn has conditioned everyone that Anal = clean but let's face it if the moment is there then do it. Get primal and enjoy with a shower afterwards. You will laugh at it if "shit happens," trust me, I know.

Thank you both for your input. It's both helpful and reassuring. I hope to have my wife read these from you and others so we can good, informed decisions on this.

We have already set the basic ground rule of no ass to pussy or mouth. Especially since we both know she is highly prone to UTIs. We definitely want to avoid that. I've also believed a little of anything that simply washes of is fine. It's the STDs that you gotta watch for. They don't wash off. I know blood washes off too but at some point I lost the ability to ignore it. Blood on my cock just mentally does me in. Lol!

You don’t really have to fully clean out with a colonic, but an enema can’t hurt and will limit any surprises. That said, if you take a dump a few hours before hand you’ll be ok as long as you’re not going too deep. The rectum is clear of waste unless you have to poop. When I”m going to do ass play, usually solo, I don’t enema. I’ve never really had a problem.

I second the other poster about anal to vag. Don’t do it. It’s a pretty sure ticket to a vag infection. Even Anal play can lead to a vag infection if you get sloppy. My wife is pretty anal phobic mainly because of this. She’s susceptible to vag infections.

Rarely have pre-planned sessions, what happens happens because we're enjoying it and it feels right at the time. Yes, there are times when you nip to the bathroom (together or alone) and 'freshen up' - with how you describe your wife, this would be the way to go!

At one time I was lucky to be in a relationship where anal was one of the things we regularly enjoyed, usually I could go in mouth/pussy/ass and mix it up as she was clean - I'd also had tissues to hand so I could do a quick clean without spoiling the flow of the moment (if I needed to step out, this was just part of out time together). But it comes down to knowing your partner and being relaxed enough to take whatever breaks as and when needed and making this part of the "flow". As always, have fun!

PS

Now you've got me thinking, condoms are great for anal (especally when you're still exploring it). Change the condom after every rear entry (clean with tissues and wipes), all can be done quickly cleanly and easily without needing to step away to the bathroom.

Enjoy and you'll find your way

I've done both and to be honest don't mind either.

Take a fiber supplement everyday and get to know your digestive system and you won't need to douche nearly as much. Luckily, I've always been clean when I've had spontaneous butt sex.

To use an enema before a man slid his cock up inside my ass and think if anyone ever did I might not have let him take me that way.
We did learn we needed to give hubby one before I used a strap-on in him as it was always going in deep enough to come back dirty. But those are easy to clean and keep enjoying the evening of pleasure. Besides we found out it was sexual for hubby to have an enema and we even began to play with how much I could put into him and how long I could make him wait to release the liquid up inside his bowels. LOL don't play too hard while he is holding on for his life as you might have an accident like we did once.

When pkaying with myself with toys or veg....no i just go for it...