So im 25 now and feel like the longer this goes on the worse I get.
Basically when I lost my V when I was 18 I didn’t last very long (expected), but I still for some reason lost confidence and felt like it was embarrassing. Then ever since I’ve completely put off getting with girls knowing I’m self conscious to have sex about possibly not lasting long again. I’ve had sex with 3 other girls since then but all when I’ve been blackout drunk so can’t remember it anyways and still don’t last long cause it’s always been such big gaps between the last time so it goes straight off.
I know I’m a half good looking guy and should have the confidence but just don’t have it, and can’t seem to get it. I’ve struggled to get in relationships etc because I know sex is part of it (which I desperately want), but always have this issue in the back of my head eating away.
I have a very high sex drive to go with this, and a very open minded adventurous mind where I think about lots of things I’d like to try etc but how can I, if I don’t have the confidence.
Any tips people, for 1) lasting longer 2) building confidence
Thanks