I know i took marriage vows..love honor obey and be faithful...but hunny your cock/ pussy just isnt good enough for me so im going to go fuck other people


it amuses me that people think that this is good for a marriage...

I would advise any woman against having an affair with a married man believing he will ever leave his wife, no matter how often he says his wife does not understand him. Love is not as necessary to a man`s happiness as it is to a woman`s. If her marriage is satisfactory, a woman will seldom stray. A man can be totally contented and still be out howling at the moon.


Love that quote

well now i have seen how things are... broken promises and lies once again..sorry im done ..all men are assholes and no one can tell me otherwise.. i hope she was worth it sid..thanks for the lies and BS again

so many times i open my heart up ..and so many times it get stomped on and trashed...so many times i give chances thinking that things will change .things will get better...that someone will like me for me .and so many times i get hurt ..why do i put mysself though this.. why do i feel like im the biggest loser on earth and i should stop even trying

why do i let people hurt me.do i seem that desparate that stupid... i give up... im so over being played.im so over being tossed away like trash..even though thats what i feel like .yesterdays trash.

I use to think that not all guys are assholes... but i dont think that now...i think that they are assholes now....just fuck anything they want and dont care what or who gets hurt in the process... and till such time as they show me different its my turn to be a bitch to them ...get the same treatment that they give me ... see how they fucking like it..the only difference is .i aint gunna be a whore and a slut like so many on here....


im done ... sid... hope ya happy ...

Im rather saddened that people are leaving this site due to hurt... people promising something thats never going to happen

Married people falling for someone and saying they want to be with that person when they really have no intention of doing so at all..

why cant people just be genuine ..why do these players keep hurting other people most of them looking for love vulnerable and end up being hurt ..saddens me that so many people are so hurtful and dont think what the consequences are...and are just too damn selfish ...

good people then leave becoz of this..

Was sitting here thinking which is what i do when im bored out of my mind... and it occured to me that there are so many married people on this site... yes some do have it written on there profiles while others seem to feel the need to hide it until you talk to them and they admit it ..or just plain out lie...

But then i think why are these married people on this site? and even people with boyfriends / girlfriends..

It appears to me that those marriage vows and commitments that you promise in front of the church in front of friends family and god are really not important anymore...

Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.

Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

I have asked a few guys that i know that are married as to why they are here and many said that its coz their wives dont give them sex... hmmm so whatever happened to for better or worse .. to love and to cherish to be faithful... their comment to this was..im not cheating on her .. well yeah you are ..

With regard to human relationships, couples tend to expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery.[5] However, there are other divisions of infidelity, which may be emotional. Cheating by thinking of, touching and talking with someone you are attracted to may be equally damaging to one of the parties.. taken from wiki definition of cheating...

defintion of infidelity- In many intimate relationships in most cultures there is usually an express or implied expectation of exclusivity, especially in sexual matters. Infidelity (colloquially known as cheating) most commonly refers to a breach of the expectation of sexual exclusivity.

defintion of emotional intimacy-Emotional intimacy can be expressed in verbal and non-verbal communication. The degree of comfort, effectiveness and mutual experience of closeness might indicate emotional intimacy between individuals. Intimate communication is both expressed (e.g. talking) and implied (e.g. friends sitting close on a park bench in silence). Emotional intimacy depends primarily on trust, as well as the nature of the relationship and the culture in which it is observed. Depending on the background and conventions of the participants, emotional intimacy might involve disclosing thoughts, feelings and emotions in order to reach an understanding, offer mutual support or build a sense of community. Or it might involve sharing a duty, without commentary.

now i know that im going to be slammed for this blog and personally i dont care... i need to ask why be with someone when you arent commited to them...i know to me i value a marriage and its committment that you make in front of friends family and god...

whatever happened to faithfullness and loyalty and honesty and being 100% committed to the one you love...guess it no longer exists

The world has become a place where you cant trust or believe anything anymore...this sadens me great deal ...


anyway... troll away coz i know its going to happen...

I woke up and thought about him this morning like every other morning.. hopped out of bed and got dressed ..looked down at the pieces of my heart shattered and in tiny pieces...reached down and picked up one tiny piece found the spot its is spose to go and super glued it in place.. its not a perfect fit anymore ..a little jagged around the edges.. but its back in its spot ..i know that when all the peices are back in there place ...my heart wont be the same...lots of jagged edges and chips and holes... but i know it is my heart and will be able to see where and for what the chips and holes are from..the broken hearts the loves lost... hard lessons learnt

so another piece another day...sometimes the super glue will hold.. sometimes it wont..but when i get all pieces together things will be okay... every piece meaning smiles are coming easier...so bare with me.. im getting there one piece at a time

love ya all that have made me smile ..laugh and spit my coffee over my keyboard.. i so needed it ..lol...

I want you to know, that I'm happy for you
I wish nothing but the best for you both
An older version of me
Is she perverted like me?
Would she go down on you in a theater?
Does she speak eloquently?
And would she have your baby?
I'm sure she'd make a really excellent mother

'Cause the love that you gave that we made
Wasn't able to make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, 'til you died?
But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

You seem very well, things look peaceful
I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know
Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity?
I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner
It was a slap in the face, how quickly I was replaced
Are you thinking of me when you fuck her

'Cause the joke that you made in the bed, that was me
And I'm not going to fade
As soon as you close your eyes, and you know it
And every time I scratch my nails down someone else's back
I hope you feel it ...can you feel it?


sometimes songs say it better then i can ever !!!

An empty house
A broken fairy tale
A hollow girl with empty arms
From an angel's tears
God made the stars
Why can't he make me an unbreakable heart
In my blue world
You shone like heaven's fire
And left me cryin' in the dark
How could anyone
Be so hard
Did you think I had
An unbreakable heart
I suppose I should know
Sometimes love just comes and goes
But I believed, foolish me
We'd go on and on
One day someone will come to you
And rock you tightly in her arms
Please remember this when you drop your guard
Nobody has an unbreakable heart
From an angel's wings to a fallen star
God makes everything
But unbreakable hearts

Just when i think im getting on top of things ..working through stuff the reason why i deleted my profile comes along and slaps me in the face yet again ... i dont know how much more i can take of it ... in just about ready to quit or good... say fuck it all.. i give up ... im not strong enough to do this and fight to not let things affect me ... im not strong enough to keep getting slapped in the face ...