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I felt the need to spill my guts on this one, because I have had success on the site, and have heard so much about how stupid some guys here can be from each of these women.

1. Most importantly, you will not get laid within minutes of joining this site. I was on here, actively, for 3 months before meeting someone in person. Don't think you are going to get laid here any faster than you might at a bar one night. Sex does not come that easily and if you are a loser in real life, you're going to be a loser here. If you don't make a girl feel comfortable, you will not succeed. (don't talk about sex within 2 seconds of getting her IM name) Talk to them and LISTEN, her mind is her main sex organ. Set yourself apart from other guys, just look through a few other guys' profiles and see whats in there, it doesn't mean you're gay to look at someone else profile.

2. Yes, there are real women on this site. There are a lot of fakes, yes. You can spot most fakes very easily though if you pay attention;
-a fake almost never has any friends
-has an extremely hot picture, that looks professional....though I have MET some women who had this, they amount to 1% of the women on the site
-has their birthday in their name
-will reply to your email as 'yes I'm interested in talking more' and then you'll get no further response
-advertises their cam in chat, and says nothing else
-sends you a wink (though this is rare) in response to yours, or hot lists you continuously without ever replying to any email
-asks for your email/contact info in their profile....you are stupid if you give it to them, in fact, don't put your email address or phone number on here period, anywhere
-asks for every picture you have, and has some other quality listed above....your picture just got used in another fake profile dummy
-occasionally you will meet some sicko who is appearing to do everything right, talks on IM to you, phone, myspace, etc....and is still fake...so until you meet someone in person do not be stupid and open yourself to identity theft

3. Read their damn profile. Show them you read it and respond to whats in there, with one caveat...e.g., if its "i just want a lot of cum"...don't tell them you just want to give them plenty. Dont tell her what you're going to do to her. In person you may be a funny guy, but your personality probably doesn't come across well online, so if you know you are not going to appear to be in her league, don't waste your time. I realize that some put basically nothing in their profiles, or just use the damned Sexyads form profile, but you should at least TRY to talk to them like normal women.

Guess what, if she says she's looking for women, then she's looking for WOMEN. So leave her the hell alone if she doesn't want a guy.

4. Take down your cock pics. I know from each woman I've met or even talked to, that they hate seeing it. Guys, you know what one looks like don't you? Dont you think they all look the same? She's got to look at your FACE first, remember that. If you are hideous she's getting nowhere near your cock! If SHE is the hideous one or she actually does go for your cock, then you should hear a voice in your head saying "Run Forrest RUN!"

5. Dont be a stalker, or a LEGHUMPER. If she does not reply to your 1st email within about a week, don't hound her with several more. Some girls get tons of mail to sift through, and some might actually forget to answer yours. You might get away with trying a 2nd, but no further than that.

6. Just because she accepts your friend invite does not mean she wants to bang you. Some do it for the same reason why people invite 10,000 people to be their friends on myspace....i.e., just so they look cool...Some may do it because she likes the picture, but don't assume she'll fuck you.

7. Participate in the site and learn about women. Spend a week in the magazine and you see the same questions come up, but you might learn. Look at the blogs, but realize some are just full of stories or other bullshit. Start your own and get them to notice you. Try the chat rooms. I have noticed some guys get on and ask "any girls in xxxx area?" and say nothing to anyone when there aren't.....why don't you just talk normally and chat a few up, show you have a personality and you could succeed.

8. Insist to meet in public, and be a man, stand by your word. Honesty goes a long way in all things. She'll know if you're a liar, probably before any talk of meeting. Maybe she'll talk about you later in her blog or somewhere else, and any guy with half a brain knows that this is a good thing if she has something good to say.

9. Be upfront about what YOU expect from the site. Most have appreciated that from me. Even the most meatheaded guy will admit to himself that if he meets a girl here who rocks his world and gets along great with him, that he would not stick to his "Just friends with benefits" preference. 99% of women aren't going to meet some guy for a one-nighter and never want to speak to him again.

10. Do NOT be pushy about meeting, or insisting on contact info or pictures. Its fair to ask about face pictures if she doesn't post one, but don't be a leghumper.

Finally, offer to be her friend. Fuck-and-forget rarely happens.

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