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Blog Title:	Life has changed forever...

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Pete_from_Aus	23-Aug-21 12:01:27 Hi there, sorry for the deeply felt loss of your soul mate. Soul mates are a rare find and to lose your so young is a travesty. You have been strong for your kids, and it cant be easy going through such a momentous tragedy alone. There is nothing wrong with you, you are perfectly normal, even though you are grieving, its still ok to have feelings and desires. It’s hard (if not impossible) to switch off your emotions - good and not so good. Hang in there things will get easier at some point in time. Your kids will be feeling it as well as they have lost their dad and their life will be a little out of kilter for a while. Just remember you are still alive and whilst you may feel guilty at times, i am sure your husband would want you to go on living and have a wonderful life. You have lots of people on here to talk to without being judged, and you can let your emotions out. We are here for you in your time of loss, grief and need. Take care of yourself and reach out if you need to. Pete xx

crazy17222	23-Aug-21 12:35:50 Sorry for your lose. There is nothing wrong with you. I know it is hard for you but all I can say is you MUST go on with life, you will always have a place in your heart for him. He can not be replaced. Ron

owbiglineman	23-Aug-21 12:56:50 Well said, Pete. I agree with that wholeheartedly. We are mammals, and having physical desires are part of our DNA, nothing to feel guilty about. NN is always an outlet, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I hope you have mental health resources available to you, grief counseling, group therapy, Compassionate Friends group maybe? I fully believe this: part of being strong is asking for help, so you are showing your strength here. Please keep posting up how you’re doing. Lots of shoulders to lean on here, truly good people with no judgement.

owbiglineman	23-Aug-21 12:56:51 Well said, Pete. I agree with that wholeheartedly. We are mammals, and having physical desires are part of our DNA, nothing to feel guilty about. NN is always an outlet, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I hope you have mental health resources available to you, grief counseling, group therapy, Compassionate Friends group maybe? I fully believe this: part of being strong is asking for help, so you are showing your strength here. Please keep posting up how you’re doing. Lots of shoulders to lean on here, truly good people with no judgement.

Naughtynympho80	23-Aug-21 14:07:44 Thank you for the kind words and thoughts, I really appreciate it more than I can express. I am just lonely I think and don't have a support system at all and so much coming down on me and don't want to feel even worse for how my pussy feels ya know

RavingLunatic	24-Aug-21 1:37:49 there's no manual on grief (not really for everyone) you feel the way you need to, it 's only "wrong" if you are putting yourself or others in danger. with empathy and regards ravinglunatic

hot12in4u	24-Aug-21 21:09:19 It’s only natural. Nothing to feel guilty about, what the ❤️ and body want and feel , it’s all part of being a human being and part of life mysterious ways, sorry for Your lost Best wishes

redduck906	25-Aug-21 9:32:43 Im so sorry for your loss. I've watched my father go through the same thing and know being able to talk about it helps with every passing discussion. Life does get easier but its a long road so talk to your children lots and remember the good times. Most important....look after yourself. Take care.

cs06	28-Sep-21 7:51:16 There’s nothing “wrong” with you...every feeling is natural and valid...keep talking about it, when it feels right to talk x