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Blog Title:	Affairs of the heart

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MitchandDaisy	9-Apr-16 22:14:01 Perhaps she has not entirely processed her split with her former boyfriend. If you go out with her on a date as friends and it suits you both, why not? Enjoy the moment. :)

sidders73	10-Apr-16 2:42:52 Thank you for that, it's kind of what I was thinking, plus with her current schedule she just might not feel like the time is right. The interesting thing is that tonight, she drunk phoned me and told me that she missed my accent. There was a male friend in the background that told me I should put down the phone and give up, I suspect over the last couple of weeks he's been poisoning her mind. When he said that, she did tell him to go away. The second time she phoned me she did say it was unfair as she was entertaining but had phoned me twice!

DubbleStrubble	10-Apr-16 7:42:06 I tend to agree with Mitch. If you're enjoying her company then make the most of the friendship and see where it goes. In the meantime, don't miss out on any opportunities to meet someone else. Good luck :)

sidders73	10-Apr-16 12:22:13 Thank you for that

sidders73	11-Apr-16 10:23:22 Update: Despite her drunk phoning me twice on Saturday night, she's clearly not interested. She went on "an amazing date and has her fingers crossed"

artworks	13-Apr-16 10:22:48 I think you should continue to remain available to her as long as it doesn't feel like a burden to you. My guess is that her reluctance is more about guilt over her time constraints than it is about attraction. That said, she may be feeling that if the connection was really, really fantastic, she'd have less internal resistance to finding a way to get together. But as you suggest, the timing may not be right for her at this moment, and continued patience, interest and availability could pay off in the long run.

artworks	13-Apr-16 10:27:22 PS: The "amazing date" could be a flash in the pan, simply her initial reaction to many things or something you may just have to wait out. If she trusts you enough to tell you about her other dates, you're already a step ahead of the pack.

sidders73	13-Apr-16 19:18:56 Thanks artworks, I really like this girl, everything about her feels so right. It just felt so natural on our date. I think maybe I was a touch too keen following on from the date but I couldn't help it as I was so excited to meet someone that seemed so right for me. We're still talking daily and I'm making her laugh so hopefully, it won't work out with this other date and I'll get to spend more time with her. She has said that she would like to see me again so who knows. In the meantime, if someone else were to come along though I wouldn't turn them down in the vague hope that this relationship could be rescued.