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Blog Title: Backing off
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Poppet_x
18-Aug-12 5:19:43
Dont back away...I think you will regret it x
18-Aug-12 9:13:15
Thanks for the encouragement, but I don't see how I can win here. She's still in love with her boyfriend. He's her Happily Ever After; I'm just a distraction. Besides, I feel badly about it. I've told her that the only thing I have against her boyfriend is that he found her first. Having been on the wrong end of this kind of situation before, haveing had the one I loved stolen from me, I know that kind of pain. Then again, my ex found her happiness that way. (I'm assuming, since I haven't heard from her in over a year.) I don't know...I'm really starting to fall for this girl. If I can't have her, I think I should back off before any more damage is done.
18-Aug-12 17:36:37
I don't know if you can see it this way, but I think there are two positive things that can come out of this situation
1. You can realize how this happened with your ex-girlfriend.

2. You realize that you can actually have feelings for somebody else again.

Good luck :)
18-Aug-12 21:03:47
There are lessons to be learned, for sure, but I don't know if I'd call any of it positive. The irony of the situation considering how I lost my ex is apparent to me. Once I was the loving boyfriend who got jilted. Now I'm the jackass trying to win the affections of another man's girlfriend. Seems I don't play the role of boyfriend or jackass very well. As I've mentioned, my only redeeming quality here (if it could be called such), is I do feel guilty about it.

Yeah, I've finally found that I am capable of love again. And it's with someone out of my grasp. Thanks for the well wishes, but I fail to see any good here.