I don't find porn boring, it's part of foreplay in a sense for me. What I do find irritating with some porn is music. Whether it's playing in the background or if it's been substituted for the original sound, I can't stand it.

If there is music at all I refuse to watch it. Hearing the participants is what makes it enjoyable and a turn-on. I don't understand why music is necessary, for me it would be a distraction. If my husband and I are enjoying each other or we're with other couples and singles the last thing I want to listen to is music.

The 'music' is the sound when were going at it.

If you want to play music be a DJ.

What turns us both off is the initial 45 minutes of cock sucking. We would like to see the type of sex everyone on NN has. No one in the world has the kind of dumb sex that porno makers think we like. Sucking all that air through angry clenched teeth?? Who does that? We just love the NN sex videos. Nothing better.

I have never cared for commercial porn. Models that look like there manufactured in a California warehouse, ridiculous moaning, fake orgasms and impossible positions for most of us. And don't even bother with plot lines, I mean really? However, I do enjoy true amateur porn. Real home videos made by real people with all their imperfections, bad lighting, bad camera angles and REAL sex. Bonus points for outdoor/public sex since that is a fav of mine. Even some of the commercially produced amateur porn is not terrible as long as it maintains the feel of not being pro. I just want to look at porn and feel as though that could be me doing it. You can keep all the mass produced stuff. That's my opinion for what it's worth.

Most porn is boring and/or stupid and some is sick and disturbing. Who the hell likes gagging and spitting? I watch porn cuz I’m a guy, wife will watch on occasion but it takes quite a while to find something tolerable. We always say we should have been porn producers because I have the imagination and she would make sure it was good for women too. Maybe in my next life! Thankfully there’s NN where most of it’s real people. Wish there was more video!

Has to be home made to be good. It's important to see people's faces. Subtle clues that they are eager and approaching orgasm, not the overdone fake stuff.

I particularly like videos that are solo-made -- where you can see they turned on the camera, lay on their backs and start playing with themselves (male and female), and then turning off the camera when they're done. It *really* shows their eagerness, and sneakiness. It has to feel naughty and sneaky.

I also should have specified amateur porn. The commercially produced porn is horrible, and fake as hell. As long as it's amateur and music free it does the trick for both of us.

Omg I agree with the amateur being best but wow, some people need serious lessons. Turn off the TV! Turn off the radio! Let’s hear sounds of fucking, not the weather! LOL

It's nice to see i'm not alone in the music free zone. Far better hearing the moans, grunts and cries while enjoying the 'movie'...it always works for my husband and I.

Are you referring to video porn only? I agree that much of it is not well done and that amateur video is more likely to get a rise out of me. I prefer to read stories. I like literotica.com" target="_blank">literotica.com. And the best stories are written by women. I'd be glad to give you the site names for some of my favorite authors if that's allowed here. Heck, just mentioning literotica.com" target="_blank">literotica.com might get this response deleted. You can contact me through the site if you like to read erotica. I think most women will enjoy written as opposed to video erotica.

Nice thread, sscd! I don't know how I missed this little jewel. Google Shel Silverstein, he is a rather famous singer/songwriter. He wrote his own tunes as well as many of Dr. Hook's songs. One of my favorite songs he penned, was, Polly in a porno. Part of the lyrics are, " I saw Polly in a porno with a pony, and the pony semed a little bored." Stacy Brown got two is another tune he penned. Google, and enjoy!




Dana

BTW, sscd! I do read your blog, you write beautifully!



Dana

Ok, Freakin' at the Freakers Ball is another good Silverstein tune! G'nite!



Dana

I'd like to read some. What's the names? Thanks.

Years ago there was a lady who did porn and started directing and producing. She was a smart lady. She realized that this world is made up with a good many women and a valuable market was being overlooked. She put out some pretty good video. I wish I could remember her name.
And I agree. I, too, hate the music. I, also, hate the spitting and gagging.

MARY MILLINGTON

Nina Hartley?

My wife isn't the biggest fan of most porn. We find some we like once in awhile but the majority of it's really geared towards men I think.

Even i'm rather bored with most of it. I enjoy live cam (usually with me being the performer) and I'm on a few sites where I can interact with my viewers. More arousing an fun. Trying to get my wife into it more.

… with the other comments here about the excessive cock sucking, spitting, and stupid music. Also, I think most of the porn producers are probably men, and I am sure men spend more on porn, so most of it is geared toward men. I do remember a women photographer who took some beautiful pictures of women that were published in "Penthouse" (remember print media?) back in the 90's, I think her name was Suzie Randall. Anyway, as a couple we do looking watching porn, at times, and despite its shortcomings I think it has made us more adventurous sexually.

I can see why a lot of women wouldn't care for much commercial porn vids, because frankly the women aren't treated as real people in many of them, just a body to be yanked around, pushed into this position, that position, blah blah blah.

I mean, a little hard sex is great but at least treat her like a human being. Is that asking too much?

Amateur porn is a tossup. YMMV. Some of it is cool, because you can tell the woman really is responding and wants to be there with the guy she's fucking. Other times it's just closeups of organs and that bores me, and I'm a guy -- and I can see how that would probably bore a woman.

stupid, mechanical porn with cheap voice acting irritates me. I am more or less tolerable to it, if there is a storyline with at least some ending.

where they are not using a story line but showing interaction with the performers like showing them in a glory hole or having a gang bang

I agree 100%!! Turn off the TV and let us hear you! I love hearI got the human sounds of sex. The more moaning, groaning, and talking the better. And posting them on NN of course. 😁

Forgot about this one. It's considered porn because it's explicit but it is very erotic. NN, I think, has a policy against mentioning other web sites so I can't mention it here.

Found it and love it. I really love the massage vids.

I think that over the last few weeks I have maxed out on porn. Commercial is ........
I was going to say ok. It does the job but I prefer amateur stuff with girl next door types.
Also a mention was given in one of the replies above to Mary Millington. Loved her, a sweet sexy ordinary looking girl with a great body.
I also looked at some random cam to cam stuff. 99.9%guys but found some cam sites with real looking women which made it more fun.

I agree 100%. Most porn videos are boring, repetitive, and extremely humiliating for women.

Then there are two things that drive me crazy
1) In most male-female videos, boobs are completely ignored (which is unacceptable to me )
2) After fucking for half an hour, the male actor touches himself to cum. What does it mean ? Just to show better shots of cum?

From this point of view I am re-evaluating many European films of the early 80s, which at least have a greater erotic charge and are not simple mechanical sexual acts.

Most porn is a massive turn off for me, and I'm a guy. I hate to think what most women think of it.

Pet hates:
Misogyny - I hate the way women are treated in general. I want at least to feel like the woman is enjoying herself and is a willing participant (ironically, BDSM porn tends to be better than most vanilla porn in this regard - although there is plenty of bad stuff there too)
Talking, esp. dirty talking (all that "ooh yeah fuck me" stuff)
Music
Gagging and sloppy blowjobs, BJ sound effects (slurp, gargle, cough, spit, yuk!!)
Crap lighting
Crap hair/nails/makeup
Storylines and attempts at acting

Stuff I do like:
Emotional build up
Chemistry between the performers
Good lighting and production values
People having fun
The aftermath - in vanilla porn, it would be nice to see people cuddling, giggling, chatting after the moneyshot. In BDSM porn, I like to see people being untied/released and given some aftercare (the post-scene interviews that kink.com sites do are good - I often enjoy them as much as the scene itself)

My favorite porn consists of paging through little gif files during a munch. No sound, no inane dialog, no grunting, groaning or panting - just a lot of cute guys going down on women, many of whom are having orgasms themselves. I don't last more than a few minutes watching those!