I know the optimum answer would be, you need both in proportion, but it also subjective, relating to the individual, so my question is in general. I was having sex with my wife the other night, and I had a penis sleeve on that provides more length, curved up, a vibrating head, a clit vibrator, but does not add much girth at all. We have a verity of toys, sleeves with girth, but all vibrate and ALWAYS has clit vibration. While this sleeve is the longest, it is also the MOST slender. My wife was having a little problem getting it all in comfortably, while on top, but once she does she has a VERY forceful orgasm, but as she was getting it in I ask her if she prefers length or girth, and she said girth. I have to say, after I use a girth enhancing sleeve her pussy feel amazing. I love a sloppy wet stretched pussy. I think I would love to fuck her after someone else has stretched it WAY out and shot off in it. But I don't see that happening, due to her being conservative. But just in general IF the penis your fucking met your expectation, but you could improve 1 thing, what would it be LENGTH or GIRTH?