What if you never do?

I am very happily to my wife of 5 years but I have an ex-wife who still pops up at times. I relish the memory and moment, often masturbating to it and then it recedes. Sometimes it is a nonsexual que too. Yard work and gardening was a big deal thing we did together. I can see a Greenhouse and smile at the memory.

I decided a nice memory/moment is just that and then go about my way. I cannot remove the good stuff so, I leave it alone. I know full well why that I divorced her and ended the relationship.

Other women I have are there in the Memory Palace but only get to walk down memory lane. Same for two ex-boyfriends. One of which had our sex been filmed would leave is owning gay porn outright. Enjoy the memory, know why they are a memory and live for the future.

It really is that simple, 😎.

I didn't dream about my ex before she was my ex, I didn't dream about her after she was my ex but she did appear in a nightmare or two.