I'm just a happily married woman discovering eroticism. We are learning that a relationship is so much more than just coexisting with your spouse. The need and pleasure you want to feel when you are having sex with your partner is eroticism. The more intimate and emotionally comfortable you become with your partner the more comfortable you should be asking to indulge in fantasy and playfulness. I am allowed to do self-exploration on what I desire and what makes me feel good. I have been pleasantly surprised by the things we discovered about ourselves. I try to be a sexual being for my husband outside of the bedroom to grow lust in his loins like I did years before. My husband and I use erotic stories as the main fuel to light the fire of our sex lives. If you are a writer, using what you know about me and what you can see in my photos, include me as another character in one of your stories.