Time to update this. I am a seasoned Dominant male and I own my wife sexually. My wife is on here with her own page - retprintmodel - her content is far better than mine. We do play with others, however I should be clear - we only entertain submissive men and women. We play exclusively as a couple, which means we do not meet with anyone solo. We do not get into degradation or anything negative. We are not on here to judge anyone for how they enjoy their lives. We support consensual relationships where no one harms another - outside what they agree upon together. Whatever rules work for you and yours are none of our business unless you are sharing it with us. I first started when NN was new, back around the change of the millennium, and I have been on here under a number of names - though I believe I was the first to use the screen name "Hubby" - over the years due to having to leave for either protecting my employment of the employment of my wife. We truly love this site. It is not just how the site is set up, it is the core group of people that are continually welcoming and encouraging. No other site we have found comes close to what NN has in its members. We look forward to meeting new people and hope everyone has more experiences on here than negative ones. Peace